I'm a little bit embarrassed to say it, but you've made me cry. Really. And it just doesn't happen, not ever when I read, except you've captured just exactly what I feel when I watch the show - it really does't matter if they sleep together (even though I love reading about Wincest). All that who-puts-what-where stuff, it's not what makes a couple. I've been in a steady relationship for about 8 years now and if I learned anything it's that it's much more important to be able to curl into a ball under somebody's arm than to touch heir boy/girl parts :)